breakaway

I'll spread my wings and I'll learn how to fly, I'll do what it takes till I touch the sky
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He's Just Not That Into You

Wednesday, June 17, 2009
“What if you meet the love of your life? Are you suppose to let that pass you by?”

"If a guy treats you like he doesn’t give a shit, it’s because he doesn’t give a shit."

"An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of ruining the friendship.

"If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will."

"Men don’t forget how much they like you. So put down the phone."

"Cut him off. Let him miss you."

"He doesn't need to be reminded that you're great."

"Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable. However, he's still the same person who just broke up with you. Remember, the only reason he can miss you is because he's choosing, every day, not to be with you."

"Being lonely, being alone, for many people sucks. I get it, I get it, I get it. But still I have to say that yes, my belief is that being with somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn't honor the person you are is worse."

"Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with."

"You deserve to be with someone who is nice to you all the time."

"Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is just moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope."
9:07 AM  //  Out of the darkness and into the sun
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